11th Law from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
Law 11 – Learn to Keep People Dependent on You
Main Idea
Power comes from control — and control often comes when others cannot function without you. If people are dependent on your skills, knowledge, connections, or influence, they are less likely to challenge or betray you. The moment they can replace you easily, your power fades.
Detailed Breakdown
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Dependence Equals Power
When others rely on you for their success, survival, or image, they have to keep you close.
Your value should be unique — not easily replaced by anyone else.
Don’t Be Easily Dispensable
Avoid situations where people can do without you.
If you’re just “one of many,” you’re disposable.
Create a Niche Skill or Influence
Specialize in something rare — a unique skill, insider knowledge, or a network they can’t access without you.
This ensures your position is seen as vital.
Make Others Think You’re the Key to Their Success
Subtly show that without you, they risk losing influence, profit, or prestige.
Don’t overplay it — keep it natural and unspoken when possible.
Avoid Making Them Too Independent
If you teach someone everything you know, you give them the tools to replace you.
Share enough to be useful, but always keep something essential to yourself.
Use Dependency to Neutralize Threats
People are less likely to betray or attack you if they know it will harm their own position.
Historical Example
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Louis XI of France
He deliberately kept nobles dependent on him for wealth, political favor, and security. By controlling their fortunes, he ensured they could not unite against him.
Practical Application in Modern Life
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At Work: Be the one who understands a system, process, or client relationship better than anyone else.
In Business: Own resources others need but can’t get elsewhere.
In Personal Influence: Maintain connections and knowledge that make you a “gateway” for opportunities.
Key Quote:
“The more you are relied upon, the more freedom you have.”
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