Here’s the 46th Law from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene explained in detail:
Law 46: Never Appear Too Perfect
Summary
Appearing too perfect can be dangerous. When you show no flaws, weaknesses, or struggles, people will feel envious, threatened, or hostile toward you. It creates resentment because others begin to compare themselves to you and feel inferior.
To protect yourself, show occasional weakness, admit small faults, or downplay your successes. This makes you more relatable, less intimidating, and reduces envy.
Key Idea
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Perfection breeds envy.
Relatability breeds trust.
Displaying small flaws (real or staged) keeps others from resenting your position.
Historical Example
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Alcibiades in Ancient Greece was known for his brilliance and beauty. But his "too perfect" aura generated jealousy and hostility, which ultimately led to his downfall.
Similarly, Caesar’s enemies feared his greatness, not his failures, which pushed them to conspire against him.
Practical Application
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Show Humility – Even if you’re strong, capable, or successful, highlight small imperfections or struggles.
Share Credit – Don’t make victories seem like yours alone.
Avoid Arrogance – Never flaunt perfection. Instead, appear approachable.
Strategic Flaws – Reveal minor weaknesses (forgetfulness, clumsiness, a mistake) to soften your image.
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